Hypocrisy … so tiresome at times
One of the forms of hypocrisy that I find particularly irritable is some women’s reaction towards certain forms of sexual education (such as Kama Sutra books or even pornographic films). I find it awkward, to say the least, when I hear a young woman shying away from such things or even regarding them with disgust. Such a behavior would be appropriate, let’s say for a 12 year old (although these days children become acquainted with sexual matters at a much younger age), but never for someone who is sexually active. How can you look at a Kama Sutra book and say “I would never read such obscenities” when just the other night you and your boyfriend were fucking like mad rabbits?
On the one hand so many girls are so eager to start their sex life just so they can brag to everyone about it but on the other hand they regard anything sexually related as an obscenity. Aren’t these people having sex to enjoy themselves? Obviously … at least, to me that is the obvious reason (regardless if they are involved in a romantic relationship or not, the issue of satisfying one’s needs is always present), so if that is the case, wouldn’t they like to make the experience even more pleasurable? Because even here you need help, you need to learn it first.
If we, humans, have sex only out of instinct we are no different than animals. Just because you know where to stick it does not mean you can have a pleasurable sexual experience. Or am I missing something here? Do all these modern girls we see in relationships day after day guide themselves according to the antiquated principle that sex is just something that the woman must endure for the sake of her partner and they don’t even try to find some pleasure in it?
Another form of hypocrisy on the same subject regards young women who are more or less outraged by the idea of their boyfriends reading or watching pornographic materials. At the beginning I’ve listed pornographic movies as a source of sexual education and I sustain my point of view. There is no better aid in a learning process than visual aid and since it would be awkward to watch in real life two people having sex (awkward for them, unless they have no inhibitions about it), pornographic movies is the best way to see how it’s done without having to do it yourself. In this way you will be prepared and more confident to approach such activities.
Women who do not want their boyfriends to watch (or to have ever watched) such materials are hypocrites because at the same time they also want them to be experts in satisfying their every need. Well, until we will learn how to tap into that genetic memory or invent a machine to help us in that endeavor, people will still have to learn things the old fashioned way … so how can two people have pleasurable intercourse if they do not know anything about it? Sexual education classes or talks with your parents can only give you the basics and in both cases they would always emphasize what you should not do, what you should be careful with and almost never what you can do to actually feel pleasure.
Tags: couples, genetic memory, girl, hypocrisy, intercourse, Kama Sutra, pleasure, porn, pornographic movies, sex, sex life, sexual education, virgins, young women
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January 20, 2009 at 5:41 pm
that’s so true and i think this also applies in the case of bad language. I reckon it’s also a form of hyprocrisy to see girls blush at the word “penis” said in an informal way, when they had “to deal” with the real thing the other night
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